Facebook the new Ground Zero of our social lives
Over the last few years social media became a large part in our daily routines, the belief that “it’s a hype, it will blow over and in a few years no one even remembers it existed” is now totally gone and I think most people realize social media and social networks are here to stay. MySpace, Twitter, Gowalla, Foursquare, LinkedIn and Facebook, the latter obviously leading the pack followed by countless others, became much more than a website for social engagement with your friends, relatives, colleagues, people you lost contact with and found via these sites or even meet new people.
All kinds of social networks are evolving to a place (notice that I don’t say website) where people start of their social lives each day at breakfast or even before, and finish it again at night just before they go to sleep. The best example of this is Facebook. A social engagement platform where anyone who exists can view, participate and actually just exist in a digital form. Where they mention doing their normal life things, commenting on others doing their normal life things, and have micro conversations as if you just passed by each other and just had the time to say ‘Hi’. Everyone can be part of ‘The Facebook’ and I’m starting to think that those of us who are not engaged or even (still) look at social media as if it were the devil itself and believe that their lives are in danger if they should ever make a profile and put in their real name online are missing out.
As the focus of users tends to shift towards what is happening on social networks (the things that others contribute) and start from there to interact with other people, I feel that they become more and more the common reference of our social interactions. Even when we’re out on the street, people meet up, have a drink at a bar or go to a party, we tend to fall back to the social networks. People talk about what others on those networks did or didn’t do, the pictures/videos and all the other stuff that’s posted on these social networks on a regular base in their conversations. They take pictures of every moment in their lives and a few years back those pictures would sit on their own computer, maybe sent to their friends on IM services like MSN, AIM, ICQ, Google Talk, … or email. But the extent of who got to take a look at those pictures was relatively small. Now everyone can see what anyone else in his or her network (and beyond) is doing. They are up to date on the lives of others going at any given moment or where they are (and what they are doing) at any point in time e.g. Gowalla, Foursquare, Facebook Places, tweets with location details, …
With the amount of mobile devices with social network capabilities growing, becoming less expensive and more interactive, a greater percentage of users have one of them combined with more/better availability of 3G/4G and cheaper data plans users are more likely to contribute to those social networks even when on the road. Conversations at a bar or just when people hang out can and often will at some point refer to something that’s been said or done on some social network and in more than one occasion someone checks up on that on their mobile device to check on what is happening or verify what others said.
Obviously you might think that is a tech-people/ early adopter/ freak thing but this is far from the truth, everyone does it. Social media are everywhere, with countless applications on web, desktop or mobile they are so entangled in our lives that it’s about as unthinkable as living without computers, Internet or even electricity anymore and what the future will bring is as always unsure, but in the next few years Social networks will thrive and I’m very excited to see what people come up with to work with/extend or create entirely new things that are social media based in the future.
Originated as an endpoint or separate channel social networks might be becoming our Ground Zero, the starting point, the end point and maybe even the everything in between of our social lives, so integrated in our lives that maybe we couldn’t even live without them. The social networks are very much a part of our social lives, is it slave to us or are we slave to them?